My friends are greatly outnumbered by people I admire...

...and that seems, paradoxically to be why I have so few friends. See if you can connect that to todays bit:
When there is a difference between your thoughts about how the world is and how the world should be, you will find that it goes on turning out contrary to what it should be. Your thoughts about how things really are rule your experience but your thoughts about how things should be rule your happiness.