Who are the real men?
I am having so much fun in the comment threads over at Pandagon.
A man who wants a relationship where he can't be outmaneuvered, is founding his house on a sand dune.
Let me try out this definition on you...
Feminist: A woman who is trying to be who she was meant to be.
Ok, that definition is weak on explanation and long on assumption but at least it can be mirrored for the case of men. That symmetry is a favorite criterion of mine. I don't much care if some philosopher has some proof that it is a flawed criterion. More explanation? Think "self acutalized" in place of "who you were meant to be".